Motivation Monday| Failures




Let me tell you a story about a girl. A little brown girl who lived in a fairytale. Her favorite tale was Cinderella because Cinderella wasn’t born a princess but she had the qualities that could rule the world in peace. She loved Cinderella and felt like her because just like Cinderella she wasn’t born with a silver spoon in her mouth but had high dreams. However, this girl imagined that she was locked up in this high tower and someday she would get out of it and see the light of the world. She knew the world wasn’t how she imagined it but she wanted to taste, feel and see how it really was.

She grew up and while growing up she came to know the world was much more than what she thought. She saw happy colors and light around her but she realised it wasn’t all like that. There was darkness too. She realised the world was filled with both darkness and light and now it was upto her to choose a side. She was curious. She wanted to know how the dark place was and so she tried it. All she got was hurt and stabbed. She was very hurt and she was ready to give up that day when it struck her mind that there was another place. The light. The girl let go of all the darkness that held her and stepped into the light. Right from that moment her life changed. She smiled, her heart laughed, her eyes twinkled with joy.

She realised every fairytale has both sides and its upto us to decide. And she decided it go with light.

Back to present…
The little girl in the story is me. Yes I love fairytale and yes I consider myself to be Cinderella locked up in a tower. Yes I have seen the darkness. I have been a victim of racism. Those years were my toughest time when I hated myself for who I was. There were times when I was called ugly and I knew I will never be liked or loved by anyone. I was not one of those people whose touch can lead to success. I have failed at many things and I was ready to give up. But I realised I was strong. If I could make it till now I know if I would try more I’ll be able to succeed. And so now I cherish my failures because without them I wouldn’t know what struggle is. And if there isn’t any isn’t life.

One thing I would want to tell every girl,boy,woman,man who has been a victim of racism or who has tasted the darkness and didn’t like it…You have a choice. It upto us to choose what we want. And with a bit of kindness and courage you can be the King or Queen of your own land.
Just remember a bit of Courage and Kindness. ☺

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75 thoughts on “Motivation Monday| Failures

    1. Firstly I am sure you will soon find the power of light. It’s not that far..we just hae to take more steps for it. Ipray you soon get over this battle and your life gets filled with the brightest light ❀ . Secondly thank you ❀ πŸ™‚


  1. I like your blog,it is charming .
    I find one issue that when you comment
    on someone’s website and if we click on your
    name , it says ‘no longer available ‘ .I think you
    are useing your old website name there!That way
    you might loose the traffic my dear.

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    1. Thank you soo much ❀ And I am glad you find it charming. Thank you soo much for your sweet words πŸ™‚ and yes that's the problem. I will look into it right away.

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  2. So extremely beautiful (I know everyone above has already used the word though… πŸ˜€ )!!! I’m literally obsessed with your blog right now! I’m not saying this because you brought it up (racism/ugly name calling) but when I first read your posts, I was like dang this girl is beautiful and has some serious writing and drawing skills !! πŸ’• πŸ’• I got to know you better through this post too πŸ˜€

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    1. Awww ❀❀❀ this literally made me smile. And not just a smile but a big one 😊😊😊😊 thank you soooo much 😊 the part where you said “I’m literally obsessed with your blog right now!” Just makes me sooo much happy. And motivates me to write more and more😊 thank you so much and I am glad I found about your blog 😊❀

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      1. I am glad it inspires you πŸ™‚ because as I said before your blog is just like an inspirational board from pinterest. Every quote is amazing and your writing skills are on point πŸ™‚ Morever the way you write shows how lovely you are. I too love making new friends especially from different places. ❀

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      2. The beauty of blogging: You are in India (I suppose?) and I am in America, different time zones, different foods, cultures, people, clothing…. but at the end of the day, we all come together in the wonderful blogosphere πŸ˜€ I really really love all the conversations we have had on each others blogs and I would like to continue but I need to go sleep (just so you don’t think I might have abandoned you :D). Good night for me and Good morning for you πŸ˜€ πŸ˜€ πŸ˜€

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      3. That’s okay. I know that its your sleeping time because I have a friend who lives in America and always says the same thing. And yes this is the beauty or power of blogging that can unite us from soo many different places. But as it is your night time…I hope you sleep well and wake up to a beautiful morning. Good night beautiful ❀

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      1. See I knew that…a name like debashish with deboleena.. n thought…yeah must be coming from d same place πŸ˜‰πŸ˜‰πŸ˜‰ like I said exotic name…I already like you πŸ˜˜πŸ˜„πŸ˜„πŸ˜„


  3. Lovely post and beautifully written! As a fellow brown girl I’ve definitely struggled with self-esteem and confidence. Constantly trying to fit in and all. But yes you’re right, it’s important to stay strong and fight through because your success will speak for itself πŸ™‚

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    1. I am glad you found it so. ❀ Thank you soo much :* and as black diamonds are rare…we're just like those diamonds ❀ Never consider yourself less because of you're color. People who comment on colors are just jealous. That's what I tell my heart if I feel it would get hurt :p

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